u thought bout it be4??

everybody live in regret..


no???
are u sure??


even if it's a small regret..
it is still a regret..


wad do u think of very often when u regret a thing??
"aiya.. why did i choose dat, nt this?? if i had chosen dat, bla.. bla.. bla.."
or
"if i had listened to them, this wont hav happened"


if, if n if..
so many IFs..


since u hav chosen it, why bother to regret??
why dun u change e way of thinking??
instead of
"IF i had bla.. bla.. bla"
change to
"since i had chosen this, why dun i make e best out of it?"


for exmaple..
i, myself..
sometimes i regretted coming to Singapore 2 study..
parents nt around, falling sick very easily, too tough, too strezz
at 1st i always thought this
"why did i chose 2 come here? my life wouldnt b so miserable if i had stayed in my hometown"


now..
knowing n understanding e fact of wad has done cant b undone..
i tried 2 think in another way..
"since i had chosen to come here, why dun i make e best out of it?"
i put my best in everything i do..
coz i know..
no point regretting..
we cant go back 2 e past..


why nt ask this qstn 2 urself?
"if i can go back to e past, am i goin 2 prevent this from happening?"


if ur ans is yes..
let me remind u this..
nothing is perfect in this world..
if u had chosen another path, do u ensure dat it'll b a happy ending??


if ur ans is no..
then wad's e point regretting??


very easy to say..
yes.. u're rite..
i also hav e time when i regretted things again..
it has become our habits to regret things..
it is impossible 2 change overnight..
take time..

remember..
dun keep on saying IF..
change ur mindset of thinking..


-regrets go away-